Introduction
You likely feel a deep dread of rejection when you try to sell your ideas, products, or services. Many people struggle because they attempt to mimic aggressive, high-pressure salespeople who act nothing like them. Blair Singer argues in Sales Dogs that you do not need a fake persona to succeed.
You do not need to be an aggressive attack dog to succeed in sales; instead, you must leverage your natural personality breed and master core psychological disciplines.
The book guides you through the canine typology of sales, fundamental mindset disciplines, and core technical skills. You will also learn how to prospect effectively and how to manage a diverse kennel of sales professionals.
Consider these questions as you begin:
- Which natural sales breed matches your personality?
- How can you conquer your fear of rejection?
- What daily disciplines separate top producers from the rest?
1. The Canine Typology of Sales
Four hundred different breeds of dog exist in the world, while there are only five breeds in the world of sales. Understanding these innate personalities helps managers put the right person on the right task, leveraging individual strengths rather than forcing artificial behaviors. Trying to force everyone into a single mold of the perfect salesperson is futile.
Salespeople fall into five distinct canine breeds, and trying to force everyone into a single mold of the perfect salesperson is futile.
The Five Breeds
The Pit Bull is the most aggressive and tenacious sales breed, relying on raw power, persistence, and fearlessness to close deals. Pit Bulls attack prospects with unmatched ferocity and view adversity merely as a wake-up call, though they often lack tact and strategy.
John, a business-machine sales representative in Canada, viewed a town devastated by tornadoes and remarked that it looked like the last person who said 'No' to him.
The Golden Retriever achieves sales success through exceptional customer service, eternal optimism, and a relentless desire to please clients. Retrievers operate on the belief that giving customers whatever they want builds long-term loyalty and continuous business.
A real estate agent in Denver explained her key to sales with watery eyes, stating that you simply give prospects whatever they want.
The Poodle is the ultimate marketing dog, thriving on flash, class, high-end presentation, and extensive networking. Poodles rely on image, sophisticated style, and charm to make a powerful first impression, operating seamlessly in high-society and high-ticket environments.
Blair Singer's friend in Tucson drove a 911 Targa, wore Zegna suits, and maintained a lifestyle of luxury and high-profile connections.
The Chihuahua is the technical wizard of the sales kennel, driven by exhaustive research, product knowledge, and passion. Chihuahuas may lack slick people skills, but their intense focus on data and details provides the proof required to win sophisticated sales cycles.
Brian at Unisys stayed up all night fueled by pizza and Cokes to research computer demos, discovering new features unknown even to the developers.
The Basset Hound builds loyal, long-term relationships through persistence, personal rapport, and a humble, approachable demeanor. Basset Hounds possess legendary persistence that wears down objections, using personal rapport to win clients over extended periods.
An Aussie head-hunter slid down with a collapsing flip chart while pitching a petrochemical CEO, continuing his pitch horizontally until the CEO laughed and gave them the account.
The SuperMutt Principle
Pure breeds in the sales world often plateau if they refuse to adopt qualities outside their natural tendencies. Combining traits like Pit Bull assertiveness with Retriever service creates a well-rounded and highly lethal sales professional.
The most successful salespeople are SuperMutts who leverage their natural strengths while actively acquiring the positive traits and skills of other breeds.
A Texas real estate school owner is cited as a brilliant business owner who is a Pit Bull in Poodle clothing, combining ruthlessness in business with grace and charm.
2. Mindset Disciplines and Emotional Mastery
Overly complex human brains often create false beliefs and fear. Simple dog-like mindsets yield success instead. High-achieving salespeople rely on specific mental disciplines to maintain confidence, eliminate negative self-talk, and manage pressure.
High-achieving salespeople rely on four mental disciplines to maintain the magic touch and succeed consistently.
SalesDogs can achieve a 30 to 80 percent systematic improvement in sales using these mindsets. These four areas cover challenges, negative dialogue, wins, and personal intentions.
You can apply specific practices to master these areas:
- Face the challenge by relying on simple memory banks of past success.
- Trap negative dialogue during adversity.
- Celebrate all wins to anchor momentum.
- Project the power of your personal intention.
When confronting high-pressure challenges, recall a specific past victory to build confidence instead of visualizing failure. Conditioning yourself to anticipate a positive reward allows you to bypass fear. Drawing confidence from a prior achievement provides the courage required in the present moment.
Basketball player Michael Jordan mentally replays his 1982 NCAA Championship winning shot to calm down and handle pressure at the end of close games.
Four Mindset Disciplines
Externalize negative experiences and eliminate universal words from your self-talk to keep your energy high during setbacks. When a deal fails, blaming yourself lowers your energy. Attributing the setback to external factors like bad timing or a prospect's bad day protects your well-being, while identifying words like always or never stops mental spirals.
You can clear your little voice by following specific steps:
- Experience a flash of emotion when a problem occurs.
- Override brain dialogue by asking: What am I saying to myself right now?
- Identify the real emotion and say the word out loud.
- Recognize universal words like always, never, or every.
- Pause, smile, and correct the universal words with specific terms.
- Spot internal directives like me, my fault, or why me.
- Smile again and shift blame to logical external circumstances.
- Stack facts and evidence to justify your externalized reason.
- Ask yourself how you really want to feel and hold that positive feeling.
Spotting the universal words wins 95 percent of the battle. Physically and mentally anchoring wins builds momentum, raises team energy, and drives permanent professional success. Adults often abandon celebration due to a misplaced sense of professionalism. Actively celebrating wins—even small ones—filters the success into your body and mind, creating a legendary mindset.
An overseas hotel coached department heads to celebrate staff wins, transforming the property into a high-performing business that maintained over ninety percent occupancy during an economic downturn.
Your unwavering expectation of a positive response helps predetermine the actual outcome of any sales interaction. If you approach a prospect believing you are a nuisance, you will likely act like one. Projecting pure, unquestioned intention removes hesitation and convinces others to accept your offer.
Four-year-old Benjamin spent his pool-table money on soda drinks at a Singapore hotel, then successfully pitched and sold the unwanted cans to strangers by the pool without any hesitation.
Emotional Mastery
Pressure builds inner resources and greatness, but unmanaged emotional lows can destroy sales performance.
SalesDogs must recognize their emotional patterns, acknowledge negative feelings without wallowing in them, and quickly shift their focus to positive actions or desired outcomes. Emotional mastery requires you to view setbacks as Temporary, Specific and External. You can act as your own Dog Trainer to manage these states.
Blair Singer worried extensively about a 300,000 dollar contract presentation. After consciously shifting his focus from what he did not want to what he did want—an open, mature conversation—he secured a contract worth twice as much.
You can manage emotional lows with practical actions:
- Identify and acknowledge the emotion involved by listening all the way through.
- Talk about what you don't like specifically, then shift focus entirely to what you do want.
- Engage in high-activity, mindless tasks like calling good customers or dropping off flyers to break negative momentum.
It takes only 1 to 2 minutes to shift your focus and emotions.
3. Core Skills and Objection Handling
Mastering fundamental skills like referrals, presentations, service, and desensitization to rejection transforms your sales performance.
Blair Singer outlines core competencies required for sales success, moving beyond raw aggression or charm to structured fundamentals. Every SalesDog must master these skills to become a top performer.
Five Critical Skills
Mastering referrals eliminates cold calling by leveraging existing relationships and trust. People buy from those they like and trust. Referrals should always include a personal endorsement about the salesperson, not just the product or service, which instantly establishes credibility.
A real estate friend of Blair Singer finds underperforming properties and raises investment capital without printing brochures or making cold calls, relying entirely on a list of referred investors. For Blair Singer, 90 percent of speaking and training fees come from referrals. Spending time with existing customers generates 10 times the rewards of other activities.
To build a referral stream, apply these methods:
- Friend gets prospect to call you
- Friend tells prospect you will call him
- Friend tells you who to call and allows you to mention their reference
- Friend gives you a name, any name
Public speaking and group presentations provide massive leverage and establish you as an expert authority. Speaking to a group instead of an individual scales your reach and positions you as a credible leader before any one-on-one sales interaction occurs. When selling computers for Burroughs, Blair Singer gave free one-hour seminars with refreshments via fax and ad campaigns instead of cold calling, resulting in the highest regional sales. In Blair Singer's education business, 90 percent of sales come directly from inquiries and leads generated from seminars and talks.
Long-term sales success requires an innate desire to serve the customer's true needs rather than just chasing transactions. Sales is about making someone's life better. Prioritizing service over immediate closing builds lasting loyalty and generates future repeat business and referrals. A high-performing insurance salesman named Fred broke records in his first year, but his sales plateaued because he neglected customer support. After learning to listen and serve clients, his sales skyrocketed and he built a multi-million-dollar network marketing company. Blair Singer secured an $80,000 a year contract five years later after he recommended a competitor's training program to a client because it was not a right fit.
To apply this service focus, use these steps:
- Ask whom you want to serve and why
- Go back to talk to past clients to find out why they purchased and what value they saw
- Help prospects find alternative solutions even if your product is not the right fit
Increasing personal marketing effort reduces physical sales effort and brings prospects directly to you. Marketing leverages your message to a wider audience through ads, headlines, networks, and seminars so that prospects put up their hands instead of being hunted down. Blair Singer partnered with Masa, a field engineer who maintained automated posting machines for 25 years, to warm up clients with equipment upgrades. This turned Singer's territory into the number-one spot in the United States for two straight years.
To expand marketing reach, utilize these techniques:
- Create cooperative relationships with existing networks
- Send out sales letters
- Create compelling headlines and unique selling propositions
- Advertise in print media and websites
- Volunteer at industry functions
- Conduct free educational seminars
- Generate testimonials and referrals
Desensitization to Rejection
Rejection and objections are not problems in themselves, but your emotional response to them is the real issue.
The only way to overcome the fear of rejection is through repeated exposure until it no longer affects you emotionally. Salespeople fear rejection and avoid it, leading to lost sales, because their fragile egos cannot handle setbacks. By immersing yourself in rejection through frequent drills, your brain becomes desensitized, allowing you to stay calm and think logically instead of experiencing an emotional meltdown.
Metropolitan Life Insurance and a team of psychologists studied the internal mental dialogue of thousands of salespeople. Salespeople who externalized rejection consistently sold 34 percent more than those who internalized it.
John, an owner and sales manager for a retail clothing firm, practiced a presentation in front of peers including Karl, a senior partner in an accounting firm, and eventually became a bestselling author and speaker. Ten people were stuffed into a practice room when John tried to storm out. Karl, who stood six foot plus and weighed more than 250 pounds, blocked the doorway to force John to finish.
To conquer the fear of rejection and handle objections, practice these methods:
- Drill and repeat the thirty most common objections and rejections over and over again
- Practice in a room with colleagues or friends, taking turns handling fictitious objections
- Hear objections and simply say thank you until you can do it without emotion
- Develop rational and logical responses to the questions and objections
- Never take objections and rejections personally
- Shift the blame elsewhere during a sales encounter
- Do not allow a negative sales event to fester into a negative generalization about your entire life
- Acknowledge the objection with a thank you
- Restate the objection to show that you truly listened and understood
- Ask some questions to further explore his concerns if he agrees with your retelling
- Ask why he has particular problems in a way that shows empathy and genuine interest
- Experiment with different scenarios until you find the one that strikes the most intimidation in you
- Drill the objections again and again and imagine your biggest nemesis barking the objection
4. Prospecting, Gatekeepers, and Territory
Direct sales is a pure energy business where the person with the highest energy wins. Beginners should not waste time qualifying leads initially because sales volume and energy generation matter more than premature filtering.
Direct sales relies on basic fundamentals, proper prospecting, friendly gatekeeper management, and long-term territory focus.
Direct Sales Basics
You can build direct sales on three straightforward components. Gain prospects, set appointments either via telephone or face-to-face, and make arrangements to close the deal.
Prospecting requires speaking first to known contacts, communicating through your preferred breed style, and doing thorough market research. You should leverage existing networks before cold-calling. Every marketing material must include a compelling offer that prompts a response.
Francine, a caring Retriever and Basset Hound, hated traditional sales pressure and phone calls, but she became the top phone salesperson by treating every call simply as a chance to serve and follow up.
Follow these prospecting practices:
- Speak to people you know first
- Make initial contact the way you are most comfortable
- Do your market research
Francine mastered phone interactions by treating every single conversation as a simple opportunity to assist clients. The goal of initial contact is to set an appointment and establish trust by consistently making and keeping simple agreements.
Follow these appointment practices:
- Make a great first impression
- Focus on what you want to happen at the appointment in advance, not on your fears
- Make an appointment to call or visit again—a reason to stay in touch
- Give them whatever you want
Gatekeepers and Territory
Gatekeepers like Rottweilers and Dobermans guard their master's time and have heard every sales trick. Pushing against them makes them stronger. Treating them like the decision-maker with respect and honesty turns them into internal allies and sources of referrals.
In Lethal Weapon 3, Mel Gibson encountered a 125-pound German Shepherd in a corridor and dropped to the floor to whine like a puppy, turning the attacker into his best buddy.
Follow these gatekeeper practices:
- Make the guard dogs your friends
- Go to their level and talk to them in ways they can understand
- Say phrases like Let me tell you about the product or Let me tell you about what I would like to find out about your company
- Treat them as though they were the decision-maker
- Treat them with respect and honesty and never patronize them
Experienced salespeople should learn to recognize and avoid pigs—prospects who argue and refuse to cooperate. Robert Kiyosaki is quoted saying that if you spend time arguing with an idiot, you now have two idiots. On the author's childhood dairy farm, German Shepherds would play with every farm animal except the pigs, which would eventually attack if pestered.
Follow these qualification practices:
- Recognize a pig when you see one
- Leave uncooperative prospects alone instead of trying to convince them
Staking out and patrolling a defined territory builds a track record of regularity and dependability that naturally attracts clients. An office products salesman in Sydney enthusiastically patrolled his territory for years, becoming the vendor of choice for the largest companies in the region simply through patience and long-term presence.
Follow these territory practices:
- Define your territory by geography, product line, business line, target market, or network
- Walk the perimeter regularly by staying active and visible
- Make and keep agreements to build a track record of trustworthiness
Constantly jumping between companies or industries out of impatience destroys momentum and prevents long-term rewards. Frank built a fast-growing network marketing organization in Toronto, but impatient for a repeat performance, he jumped to 6 different companies in 2 years and ended up an obscure administrator.
You should choose a company based on the quality of education and training it provides rather than initial compensation. The author chose Burroughs over competitors with better products because of its extensive training, which provided the tools and resilience to become a major business player.
Follow these career practices:
- Select a company based on the training provided rather than initial compensation
- Make a commitment to stay for at least 4 to 5 years
A SalesDog's career progresses naturally through 5 major migrations that exponentially increase income, responsibility, and leadership. Moving from retail sales to corporate sales, franchise ownership, entrepreneurship, and finally business builder requires transitioning from simple selling to mastering marketing and leadership, yielding 5 to 6 times greater income difference between sphere one and sphere four.
Follow these migration practices:
- Progress from retail sales focusing on assertiveness and high energy
- Move into corporate sales focusing on face-to-face trust and complex relationships
- Take on a franchise or multilevel organization as an owner
- Become an entrepreneur building your own concept, product, and infrastructure
- Transition into a business builder and seller
5. Managing the Kennel and Building Teams
Managing sales teams requires tailored breed assignments, rigorous puppy training, positive reinforcement, and a shared Code of Honor.
Managing Different Breeds
You cannot manage every salesperson the same way. Pit Bulls thrive on high-risk challenges, quotas, and direct instructions rather than tactical diplomacy. Poodles are motivated by prestige, flashy status symbols, and the opportunity to make a prominent name for themselves. Retrievers excel at servicing existing clients and building long-term loyalty through follow-up and relationship maintenance. Chihuahuas require deep product knowledge, industry data, and market research to build confidence and close deals. Basset Hounds require high maintenance, regular pushes out of the office, and patient support to leverage their incredible trust-building skills. A Basset Hound in the airfreight business saved a 15 million dollar pharmaceutical distribution account that suffered horrendous service failures and subsequently sold an additional 7.5 million dollars of business to the same customer.
House-Training and Team Building
House-training sales teams requires positive reinforcement, immediate specific feedback, and a shared Code of Honor. An owner operating over two hundred retail franchises increased sales per person several percentage points in one year simply by having store managers actively celebrate or acknowledge individual wins. A manager's unspoken expectations and rankings directly predetermine the performance levels of their sales team members. Treating a struggling salesperson as a champion rather than a stray mutt changes their perception of themselves, allowing scroungy team members to rise and achieve extraordinary results.
New sales puppies should be trained through small, low-risk foundational tasks and field immersion before making live sales calls. Throwing pups directly into the wild wastes time and damages the human spirit. Instead, assign preparatory tasks like product research, installations, customer observation, and phone surveys to build momentum.
- Assign them to read six product-related articles and report back to the group.
- Tell them to read three manuals and to give three demonstrations.
- Have them visit ten installations and share what they learned.
- Have them go observe or work for your best customer at no charge for a few days.
- Have them learn about the industry by researching history and headlines.
- Have them conduct phone surveys to find out what customers want by completing at least twenty-five calls.
- Make sure each successfully completed task is acknowledged and celebrated.
10 Key Ideas
- Salespeople fall into five distinct canine breeds—Pit Bull, Golden Retriever, Poodle, Chihuahua, and Basset Hound—and trying to force everyone into a single mold of the perfect salesperson is futile.
- The most successful salespeople are SuperMutts who leverage their natural strengths while actively acquiring the positive traits and skills of other breeds.
- High-achieving salespeople rely on four mental disciplines, such as trapping negative dialogue during adversity, to maintain the magic touch and succeed consistently.
- Actively celebrating wins—even small ones—filters success into your body and mind, creating a legendary mindset that drives permanent professional success.
- Mastering fundamental skills like referrals, public speaking presentations, and service transforms your sales performance and eliminates the need for cold calling.
- The only way to overcome the fear of rejection is through repeated exposure and drilling the thirty most common objections until it no longer affects you emotionally.
- Treating gatekeepers like Rottweilers and Dobermans with respect and honesty turns them into internal allies and sources of referrals.
- Staking out and patrolling a defined territory by geography, product line, or business line builds a track record of regularity and dependability that naturally attracts clients.
- A SalesDog's career progresses naturally through major migrations that exponentially increase income, responsibility, and leadership from retail sales up to building a business.
- House-training sales teams requires tailored breed assignments, positive reinforcement through immediate specific feedback, and preparatory foundational tasks before live sales calls.